Is it difficult or easy to exchange who you are and what you believe in to fit into a mold of what a group of people dictate and try to mandate who and what you should be?
Perhaps it is best to be sure of what and why you believe in certain things.
If you do not believe in gay rights, does that make you homophobic? You do not advocate bashing, beating, torturing or any vile thing, does that mean that you can still be label as being prejudice?
If you believe that abortion is wrong, does that make you an advocate against the rights of women?
If you believe that one should wait until sex before marriage, does that make you out to be someone who is out of touch with the real world?
Fitting in, hmm, by what standards should we follow to do just that?